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Service: Tantric Soothe and Nurture
The ultimate edging experience 
How do I know this experience is for me?

Whether you're looking to reclaim confidence, learn to move energy through your body, or simply feel more connected to your own desire, this is a beautiful place to begin.


This experience is for you if you:

  • Feel overstimulated, exhausted or stuck in your head

  • Crave soothing, loving, non-judgmental touch

  • Long to reconnect with your sensuality in a gentle, safe way
     

This full-body immersion helps:

  • Release emotional and energetic blockages

  • Soothe anxiety and calm the nervous system

  • Awaken your arousal in a conscious and grounded way

  • Reignite your connection to touch, sensation, and your own masculine energy
     

Supports you in cultivating:

  • Greater confidence in your sensual expression

  • More refined awareness and control of your sexual energy

  • An expanded sense of pleasure, embodiment, and inner connection
     

Designed for men who are ready to:

  • Reclaim their sensuality with presence

  • Let go of shame and pressure around performance

  • Explore their energetic body and erotic potential

  • Feel deeply worshipped and seen 

  • Build trust in the feminine


As you surrender, you may begin to feel:

  • Warm tingles spreading through your skin

  • A sense of weightlessness or floating (often described as astral projection)

  • A deep calm that moves through your mind, allowing total release

  • A growing energetic connection to yourself, your breath, and something greater

  • The stirring of a full-body orgasmic state, where pleasure is no longer localised, but flowing through your entire being

What techniques do you use?

This Tantric Soothe & Nurture offering is a guided, sensual healing experience that combines tantric ritual, healing touch, breathwork, edging/arousal teasing, lingam worship, body to body sensual massage and energy alchemy, this offering creates a safe sanctuary where you can surrender and be nourished. 

Each session is unique and guided by the energy of the moment and your personal boundaries. Nothing is ever forced. The goal is awakening, healing, and opening to deeper levels of sacred sensuality and self-connection.

Do I need experience?

No experience is needed. This offering is for anyone who feels called, whether you're completely new to tantra or already exploring sacred sexuality. All that's needed is an open heart and willingness to receive. 

 Is the service practiced with clothes on?

You will be provided a sarong to wrap or tie around your waist and slowly undressed. Nudity is optional, you'll only undress to your comfort level.

What is a Lingam?

The word lingam translates to 'pillar of light' in Sanskrit, refers to the male genitals. The Dakini approaches your Lingam as a portal of life force, not just for physical release, but for emotional and spiritual awakening. 

What is a Lingam Massage?

Slow, rhythmic, conscious touch, guiding you into deeper layers of sensation and surrender.
It is natural, even celebrated to release yourself during this part of the journey. You may experience: A shaking, ecstatic orgasm, deep emotional release, heightened spiritual connection, or even multiple waves of pleasure, unlike anything you’ve known before

What is a full body orgasm?

A Tantric full-body orgasm is a deeply expansive, non-linear orgasmic experience that goes beyond the genitals and involves the entire body — physically, emotionally, energetically, and spiritually.​

 

Unlike a conventional orgasm, which is usually short-lived and centered around the genitals, a Tantric full-body orgasm can feel like waves of energy, pleasure, or bliss that flow through the whole being. It may last much longer, occur without ejaculation, and bring about a sense of euphoria, deep connection, and even transcendence.

Is it usual to have an orgasm? And what if I experience multiple?

During our Tantric Soothe and Nurture receive offering, it is seen as natural and normal to release yourself. This isn’t seen as something shameful or inappropriate.

 

it’s viewed as:

  • A healthy expression of life force energy

  • A cleansing or energetic release that can open the heart and relax the nervous system

  • A step toward deeper healing and control, especially if you’re learning to connect with your arousal in a more conscious way


​Yes, it is also natural to reach multiple full body orgasms during a tantric session. If you know that you can have multiple orgasms or would like to gain further control of your sexual energy, we recommend you book a session that lasts at least 90 minutes. 

What if I have an orgasm early?

Your dakini goddess will politely tidy up, and you can continue enjoying your experience. The dakini Goddess will move your sexual energy around your body to assist in reawakening your vessel and providing a full-body orgasm. 

Benefits of incorporating Edging into our lives?

Edging allows you to feel more, for longer. Instead of a short burst of release, you can experience long, rolling waves of pleasure throughout the entire body, sometimes leading to full-body or non-ejaculatory orgasms.

By holding back from climax your sexual energy is amplified and recirculated through the body, rather than discharged. Regular edging helps you become more aware of your arousal levels and more confident in controlling ejaculation. Over time, this can lead to longer, more satisfying experiences, both solo and with a partner.

 

When you're not focused on "finishing," you're more attuned to your breath, emotions, and energy flow. This creates a stronger connection to your body, and in partner work, a deeper intimacy and presence with another.

This is known as retaining your life force or cultivating Chi (prana) in Tantric practice.

Can I touch the practitioner? Is the Dakini Goddess Naked?

When practicing our Tantric Soothe and Nurture offering our Dakini Goddess are identified as the giver, and you the receiver. 

To reach a heightened understanding of tantra and your senses, these roles are not exchanged during the healing session.

 

Your Goddess may allow some light consensual touch which can be motivating; however, if not discussed and consent provided, it can disturb the flow of energy between you and the Dakini goddess.
 

This energy can strongly devalue the experience and principles of tantric massage. Your Goddess will outline her boundaries before every session and will stop a session if required. 

Does this include physical touch to the Dakini Goddesses Yoni (Valva)?

No physical touch is permitted to our practitioners Yoni 

What if I feel nervous?

Feeling nervous is completely natural. This is a safe space. You are free to pause, breathe, or communicate your needs at any time. I hold a safe, non-judgmental space where you are free to relax and move at your own pace. 

What if I feel emotional during the session?

Emotions may arise naturally, this is part of the healing process. You are welcome to express or release emptions in whatever way feels safe. 

Is this sexual service or therapy?

No. This is a sacred, tantric bodywork and energy healing. This is a guided ritual of healing, nourishment and awakening. While erotic energy is honored, this is not about sex or clinical therapy. Through tantric touch, sound and energy I invite you back into your own body, not as a machine to fix, but as a temple to be worshipped. 

What if I have physical limitation or injuries?

This session can be adapted to accommodate your body. Please share any conditions beforehand so I can ensure safety and comfort.

Can I schedule a session if I feel sick or unwell?

No. Sessions are best experienced in healthy state. If you feel unwell, we can reschedule to ensure your comfort and safety. 

How do I prepare mentally for a session?

Light stretching, and a few minutes of quite breathing can help you arrive fully present. Arrive with an open mind and heart. Avoid rushing in from stressful activities.

Can I eat or drink before a session?

Light snacks are okay, but avoid heavy meals immediately before. Hydration is important before and after the session

How will I feel afterward?

You may leave feeling lighter, calmer and more open in your body. You may feel deeply relaxed, or you may feel an awakened flow of energy moving through you. Many describe it as both grounding and revitalising. 

Is aftercare necessary?

Yes, Drinking water, resting, journaling and grounding practices help integrate the session's effects. An aftercare guide can be provided, just ask.

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​SDH respectfully acknowledges the Kulin Nations: Boonwurrung, Wurundjeri, Wathaurrung, Taungurung and Dja DjaWrung as the traditional custodians of Naarm. SDH collective respects the Kulin Nation's Elders & custodians, past and present, and all Elders of clans who may not be named here.
 

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